So I got tagged (thanks to Lisa). Some of this I’ve posted before. Some I’ve added and others reiterated.
10 different points of things I find attractive in a girl.
1. Love music. I don’t care what kind, just know your music. ‘Any kind’ is almost an immediate turnoff. (You’re an exception if you are you know who). If you play an instrument, that’s a definite plus.
2. Be ambitious. Don’t do something just because it’s expected of you. Do something because that’s what you feel passionate about.
3. Don’t be so Korean (or any ethnicity for that matter). Continuously talking in Korean/Chinese or any other language when there are clearly people around you that don’t speak the language is a complete turnoff. Having friends of different ethnicities is a plus.
4. If you’re good looking, that always helps with the initial attraction … boobs and asses don’t really matter to me. Being a good kisser is a plus, too.
5. Be spontaneous. I sometimes try to get lost on purpose (most of the time i get lost without trying). I also try to go to new restaurants I’ve never heard of. Be random.
6. Sometimes, all I really wanna do is sit and just talk. Be open with who you are but lend a ear to hear who I am, too. Be supportive but also know when to criticize me when something is obviously amiss in your eyes.
7. Be smart, witty, and honest. Be honest. Be honest. Be honest. Really. If you don’t like something I said or did, please tell me. Don’t try to hide things from me just because you think that’s not what I want to hear.
8. Smile. Trust me, you look a lot better when you do.
9. Don’t be a hard core Christian (or any religious) fundamental bigot. Understand and appreciate religious/cultural differences and changes.
10. Don’t talk about wanting to have another man’s baby. This has happened to me before and I still don’t understand why she persisted (no, she wasn’t kidding).
11. One more thing just because this is a complete turn off to me. Don’t talk shit about someone behind their back when you’re afraid of talking to them face to face about it. I’m actually ok with this most of the time but why I’m saying this is because some girls would do this, and then proclaim they love someone (or heart or whatever word they want to use instead, because love is overrated after all, right?) on the same day.